本研究之目的在於探討國中生之自戀、自尊、羞愧傾向與關係攻擊的關聯性，並且檢視自尊及羞愧傾向對於自戀與關係攻擊間之關聯性是否具有調節效果。本研究對象為四所國中之七年級與八年級學生共589人（男生297人、女生272人），樣本之平均年齡為13.67歲。本研究所使用之測量工具為「自戀量表」、「自尊量表」、「羞愧傾向量表」及「關係攻擊同儕提名問卷」。本研究之結果發現：國中生之自戀傾向及羞愧傾向，能夠正向地預測其關係攻擊的程度；國中生之自尊能夠負向地預測其關係攻擊的程度；然而，國中生之自尊及羞愧傾向，對其自戀與關係攻擊之關聯性並沒有調節效果。研究者針對本研究之結果，提出對於教育與輔導工作及未來研究方向之相關建議。

The purpose of this study was to explore the relationships between narcissism, self-esteem, shame-proneness and relational aggression of early adolescents. In addition, the moderating effects of self-esteem and shame-proneness on the relationship of narcissism and relational aggression were explored. The participants were 589 junior high school students (first and second graders) from four schools, including 297 boys and 272 girls. This study used “Self-Esteem Sale”, “Narcissism Scale”, “Shame-Proneness Scale” and “Relational Aggression Questionnaire – Peer Nomination” to collect data from the participants. The findings of this study were as follows: First, early adolescents’ self-esteem negatively predicted their relational aggression. Second, both of the adolescents’ narcissism and shame-proneness could significantly predict their relational aggression. Finally, the results demonstrated that self-esteem as well as shame-proneness did not play the moderating role in the relationship between adolescents’ narcissism and their relational aggression. Based upon the findings, some of the research limitations, educational implications and suggestions for future research were provided.

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