本研究目的在於探討未婚女性走出受創的準婚姻關係的心路歷程與影響，希 望透過生命故事敘說與研究者的理解與詮釋來瞭解未婚女性經歷受創的親密關係經驗，並呈現她們的因應與求助。本研究採取敘說研究法進行資料蒐集與分析歷程。研究者先以立意取樣方式邀請到兩位願意分享個人生命故事的研究參與者；並利用半結構式訪談大綱進行深度訪談，以蒐集未婚女性走出受創的準婚姻關係的生命敘說。訪談內容轉錄為逐字稿後，研究者先將訪談內容撰寫成未婚女性走出受創的準婚姻關係的生命故事，再以敘說分析法中的「整體-內容」形式進行生命故事分析。
本敘說研究發現未婚女性走出受創的準婚姻關係的影響如下： （1）對於自我於人際交往信任的再思考；（2）對於感情依附在生命價值上的定位
另外，未婚女性走出受創的準婚姻關係的幫助因素則如下：（1）正式支持系統，包含警政與心理社工單位；（2）非正式的支持系統，包含身邊親友的支持。從兩位研究參與者的生命故事中，發現與以往研究不同之處，也是未婚女性較難與正式系統申訴，多最後轉向於親朋好友的幫忙。
最後，研究者除了呈現個人之研究省思，並根據上述研究發現與結果，對未來研究提出建議。

The purpose of this study is to understand the process and impact of unmarried women’s getting out of suffered relationship by narrative study. It’s expected to realize their unique experiences, their feeling and useful factors which helped them.
The author used half-structured questioner and talk to participant, know their life stories, and writing their stories. Later, each narration was transcribed and then was analyzed under the “holistic-content” narrative approach.
It is discovered that two participants share identical background factors as follows, revealed in the narrative data: (1) rethinking of interrelationship with person, (2) the position of intimacy attachment in life.
Moreover, the useful factors to participants including: (1) formal support system, like police, psychotherapist, (2) informal support system, like family and friends. In this study, unmarried women more hard to use formal support system. They used it but not work, so they turn to informal support system to get support and help.
Based on the findings above, the study also discussed possible research direction, like how psychotherapy can help useful, might be an important issue.

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